Emotional Abuse comes in all shape and sizes. There are many ways to deal with such abuse. Abuse often comes from those who are angry. Angry people are often very anxious. In this article will have a look at how to deal with anger and abuse, the effects of abuse, and recovering from abuse. We will also discuss domestic violence and the law, the pathology of abuse, police efforts against abuse and violence, and who is affected by such abuse.
The Silent Answer.
Not all emotional abuse comes from shouting or criticism. Disengaging is one of the most common types of emotional abuse. Disengaging is where a partner is constantly distracted or pre-occupied. Those who do this do not have to put you down. However, the fact that they do not talk, or even consider the other person’s views is a form of abuse. If they do actually do this, they are likely to be dismissive or impatient.
This is where a partner never makes the time to think about other people’s views. These people will say things like: Do what you like. Just keep me out of it. In this case, these people are often flirts, obsessive or workaholics. They may also love to sit on the couch all day and do nothing. They often see no point in trying. If they try, they think they will fail.
These two tactics make someone feel like they don’t matter, unseen or unheard, and not as attractive as other people.
Harmful Adoptions When Dealing With Anger And Abuse.
When it comes to dealing with someone who angry or abusive, it is rarely about shouting or criticism, or other obvious wrong behaviour. It is more about the adoptions that they try to prevent and hide from others. Those like this usually end up walking on eggshells. They think this will help them to keep peace. Or keep some kind of connection with other people.
When it comes to negative effects that come from walking on eggshells, women are the one’s who are most vulnerable to this. This is because they can get anxious easily. Women who experience emotional abuse often end up losing themselves. Men who experience emotional abuse will often isolate themselves. They occupy themselves with work or other hobbies.
Nobody Can Fully Remove The Effects Of Abuse.Those who walk on eggshells lose some kind of dignity and autonomy. They will often have depression and anxiety. As a result, the symptoms experienced will interfere in many aspects of the lives of those with this condition. They will find it difficult to work productively, sleep and concentrate. Drinking may also occur regularly. Self esteem can often become very low.
Emotional abuse can be more physiological harmful than physical abuse. There are all kinds of reasons for this. For example, if a violent outburst occurs, there will be a period where the person will feel remorseful. They will pay attention to what they have just done. However, once this has ended, they will say things like: don’t worry about what is going on. Just stop hitting me.
Emotional abuse occurs repeatedly every day. This is more harmful than physical abuse because of its frequency. Those who have been abused emotionally blame themselves. They think they are the problem when they are not.
To recover from walking on eggshells, you must be able to give your attention to the positivity of the relationship. Then you can begin to focus on healing yourself. When you begin to heal the inside of you, this becomes very powerful. Healing from such abuse is a must. Once you heal, you will realize how valuable you are. You will be more confident and powerful. It does not matter what others do or say. You will also have the strength to value and respect your relationships.
Dealing With Domestic Violence.
In December 2014, an announcement in the UK was made in what domestic abuse actually is. Domestic abuse now includes controlling and coercive behavior. This new law changes were made to the Serious Crimes Bill of 2015. Physiological abuse is now an offense that can be punished.
Why Was The Law Made.
Domestic abuse has been described as tantamount to torture. Those who experienced abuse were stuck in physiological and physical violence. The outcome of such violence often results in death. Those who abuse others keep abusing until they have control of their victims. The new law was made so that it can save lives. It is designed to remove such violence and abuse.
What Do These Domestic Violence Changes Mean?
Before the new law came about, this original definition of abuse was not an offense. Those who behave in such a way will end up in jail for at least fourteen years. These people are now the same as violent abusers. It is expected this law will begin sometime toward the end of 2015.
The Pathology Of Abuse.Domestic abuse is where an abuser seeks to control and have power over those they abuse. They will do their very best to:
A. Lower the esteem of their victim. B. Suppress the personality of the victim. C. Create social dependency. D. Restrict the financial freedom of their victim. E. Physically abuse and threaten their victim so they become fearful.
Police Efforts Against Domestic Abuse And Domestic Violence.Many English and Welsh Police are unable to deal effectively with abuse and violence. Only eight out of forty three will be dealt with well. In Lancashire however, the police were found to have the best response to such abuse and violence.
Who Is Affected By Domestic Abuse?
Across the U.K. at least one point two million women have been affected by abuse. Many have been reported. When it comes to men, abuse is less likely to be reported. Most victims don’t seek help. They don’t think it will change their situation. Abuse also occurs between siblings, or caregivers and their charges.
In this article, we have seen that emotional abuse comes in all kinds of ways. It comes in many forms and is always happening. The effects of abuse will never be completely removed. All forms of domestic abuse can now be punished. Particularly in the U.K. The good news is, help can be sought if a victim wants to remove themselves from abuse. It is OK to contact the police in whatever abusive situation you find yourself in. You have nothing to be afraid of. They are there to help.
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